How to Build Healthy Relationships – Love and Marriage Tips

What makes a Relationship Work

What makes a relationship work are things in common. What makes a relationship passionate, are things being different. If you have different values, you will end up hating each other. If there are different energies, masculine and feminine energies, regardless of your sexuality, there are going to be sparks. That is where the electricity comes from in a relationship.

Many people build relationships with someone they have a lot in common with. In this type of relationship, there is love, but it lacks in passion and intensity because they are both being masculine or both being feminine.

In a relationship, you have to master two primary skills. You must know how to select, and connect. These are the skills of a relationship. Selection and connection. You have to find a way to constantly improve the amount of joy and passion you have with the person you are in a relationship with.

Make them a Raving Fan

You want to have more than just a lover, a husband, a wife, a boyfriend or girlfriend. You want to have more than that. You want to have a fan. You want someone who is a raving fan of you. Someone who is a fan of you will not leave you and they will stay loyal to you forever. If they are with you simply because its comfortable, as soon as they get a better deal or offer, they will leave. A fan will never leave and stay loyal to your brand.

Your goal in a relationship, above all else, is to make this person who is in your life a raving fan. There is only one way to do that. You must worship them, not just love them. You have to worship them. If you want to have something extraordinary, you have to worship your lover. The person who is worshiped is not going to leave.

How can you Worship your Lover

You have to know what you want in a relationship. You have to know what you want and what you’re looking for. If you’re single, you have to have a vision for what you really want. You have to focus on the type of relationship you want and the type of person you want to build it with. What would excite you? What would light you up?

Its not just about looks or the values they have. Its also about what your relationship would create in the world that would inspire you to be in this relationship. Without a vision of what the relationship is going to be, you will settle for whatever shows up.

All you have to do is to get a vision that is so compelling, exciting, and emotional for you that you will find a way to make it happen.

The first and most important choice you are going to make in your life is going to be the decision of who you’re going to select as your partner. You’re going to get absolutely clear on what you want in a relationship and not stop until you get it.

As with any goals, you have to be clear, concise and detailed in the specifications of the relationship you want to create. The more detail and focus you have, the more likely you are to find and create the best relationship for you. Much of your happiness in life will depend on the partner you spend your time and energy with, so this is perhaps the most important decision you are going to make.

What makes a relationship work, are things in common. Similar values, dreams, loves, and desires. What makes a relationship work is commonality, because it gives you the emotion of certainty that allows you to open up and connect with the other person. Most people like themselves, so finding someone like you allows you to build trust and open up with this person.

What Makes a Relationship Passionate

What makes a relationship passionate is uncertainty. Not knowing whats going to happen and the differences between you. Can you build a relationship with both love and passion? Yes you can. But most people pursue the similarity relationship because it is more comfortable and certain.

If you have someone who is like you, you will have a great friend but you will not have passion. The way you can have both love and passion in a relationship is to honor the differences and enjoy those differences. Some of those differences are inconvenient and you may not like them. But you have to learn to love what you didn’t like.

What Don’t You Want in a Relationship or Marriage?

As with knowing what you want to have in a relationship, you should also be clear about what you don’t want. You have to learn to be honest with yourself and evaluate a relationship to know if it is the right one for you. You must focus on what you want to have in a relationship as well as what you can not have or tolerate in a relationship.

This will make it clear for you exactly what your relationship should have and not have for you to create the life that you want. The way to a fulfilling life is to be clear about what you need to have. An important element of that is to know what you must not have.

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